tadi pagi telah berpulang kembali pada-Nya.
mpus ndut yang sangat kami sayangi.
serpong 26 november 2007-lagi berkabung-
Monday, November 26, 2007
selamat jalan mpus ndut
Saturday, November 24, 2007
Eccentric Personality Disorders: Paranoid, Schizoid, Schizotypal
| Paranoid | |||||||||||||||||| | 74% | 49% |
| Schizoid | |||||||||||||||||||| | 82% | 53% |
| Schizotypal | |||||||||| | 38% | 53% |
| Antisocial | |||||||||||| | 50% | 47% |
| Borderline | |||||||||| | 38% | 47% |
| Histrionic | |||||||||||||||| | 62% | 43% |
| Narcissistic | |||||||||||||| | 58% | 41% |
| Avoidant | |||||||||||||||| | 66% | 39% |
| Dependent | |||| | 18% | 37% |
| Obsessive-Compulsive | |||||||||||||||| | 70% | 40% |
| *scores in gray are the average web score |
| Test Note: Read the descriptions below to avoid misinterpreting test results (for example, the Antisocial classification does not mean you are a loner, it means you tend to be insensitive towards others). General Note: the validity and reliability of DSM personality disorders are still lacking in strong statistical evidence and clear agreement in the scientific and medical community. They are determined by the American Psychiatric Association and will likely be revised in the future. Author Note:I don't think Schizoid personality is a valid disorder (read), some of the smartest people in history were schizoid because they occupied a remote end of the intelligence bell curve. Schizotypal personality can encompass highly original thinkers as well as totally insane people so I think it's a flawed type. I think the remaining eight disorders are generally valid. Disorder Info Individuals with these disorders often appear odd or peculiar.
Paranoid Personality Disorder - individual generally tends to interpret the actions of others as threatening. Schizoid Personality Disorder - individual generally detached from social relationships, and shows a narrow range of emotional expression in various social settings. Schizotypal Personality Disorder - individual is uncomfortable in close relationships, has thought or perceptual distortions, and peculiarities of behavior.
Antisocial Personality Disorder - individual shows a pervasive disregard for, and violation of, the rights of others. Borderline Personality Disorder - individual shows a generalized pattern of instability in interpersonal relationships, self-image, and observable emotions, and significant impulsiveness. Histrionic Personality Disorder - individual often displays excessive emotionality and attention seeking in various contexts. They tend to overreact to other people, and are often perceived as shallow and self-centered. Narcissistic Personality Disorder - individual has a grandiose view of themselves, a need for admiration, and a lack of empathy that begins by early adulthood and is present in various situations. These individuals are very demanding in their relationships.
Individuals with these disorders often appear anxious or fearful. Avoidant Personality Disorder - individual is socially inhibited, feels inadequate, and is oversensitive to criticism Dependent Personality Disorder - individual shows an extreme need to be taken care of that leads to fears of separation, and passive and clinging behavior. Obsessive-Compulsive Personality Disorder - individual is preoccupied with orderliness, perfectionism, and control at the expense of flexibility, openness, and efficiency. |
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Eccentric Personality Disorders: Paranoid, Schizoid, Schizotypal
| Paranoid | |||||||||||||||||| | 74% | 49% |
| Schizoid | |||||||||||||||||||| | 82% | 53% |
| Schizotypal | |||||||||| | 38% | 53% |
| Antisocial | |||||||||||| | 50% | 47% |
| Borderline | |||||||||| | 38% | 47% |
| Histrionic | |||||||||||||||| | 62% | 43% |
| Narcissistic | |||||||||||||| | 58% | 41% |
| Avoidant | |||||||||||||||| | 66% | 39% |
| Dependent | |||| | 18% | 37% |
| Obsessive-Compulsive | |||||||||||||||| | 70% | 40% |
| *scores in gray are the average web score |
| Test Note: Read the descriptions below to avoid misinterpreting test results (for example, the Antisocial classification does not mean you are a loner, it means you tend to be insensitive towards others). General Note: the validity and reliability of DSM personality disorders are still lacking in strong statistical evidence and clear agreement in the scientific and medical community. They are determined by the American Psychiatric Association and will likely be revised in the future. Author Note:I don't think Schizoid personality is a valid disorder (read), some of the smartest people in history were schizoid because they occupied a remote end of the intelligence bell curve. Schizotypal personality can encompass highly original thinkers as well as totally insane people so I think it's a flawed type. I think the remaining eight disorders are generally valid. Disorder Info Individuals with these disorders often appear odd or peculiar.
Paranoid Personality Disorder - individual generally tends to interpret the actions of others as threatening. Schizoid Personality Disorder - individual generally detached from social relationships, and shows a narrow range of emotional expression in various social settings. Schizotypal Personality Disorder - individual is uncomfortable in close relationships, has thought or perceptual distortions, and peculiarities of behavior.
Antisocial Personality Disorder - individual shows a pervasive disregard for, and violation of, the rights of others. Borderline Personality Disorder - individual shows a generalized pattern of instability in interpersonal relationships, self-image, and observable emotions, and significant impulsiveness. Histrionic Personality Disorder - individual often displays excessive emotionality and attention seeking in various contexts. They tend to overreact to other people, and are often perceived as shallow and self-centered. Narcissistic Personality Disorder - individual has a grandiose view of themselves, a need for admiration, and a lack of empathy that begins by early adulthood and is present in various situations. These individuals are very demanding in their relationships.
Individuals with these disorders often appear anxious or fearful. Avoidant Personality Disorder - individual is socially inhibited, feels inadequate, and is oversensitive to criticism Dependent Personality Disorder - individual shows an extreme need to be taken care of that leads to fears of separation, and passive and clinging behavior. Obsessive-Compulsive Personality Disorder - individual is preoccupied with orderliness, perfectionism, and control at the expense of flexibility, openness, and efficiency. |
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Keep in mind, your results are dependent on the accurate truth of your responses. The more you take this test and get the same result, the more likely the results may be accurate. Finally, your scores, over the long term, will change as you do.
Eccentric Personality Disorders: Paranoid, Schizoid, Schizotypal
| Paranoid | |||||||||||||||||| | 74% | 49% |
| Schizoid | |||||||||||||||||||| | 82% | 53% |
| Schizotypal | |||||||||| | 38% | 53% |
| Antisocial | |||||||||||| | 50% | 47% |
| Borderline | |||||||||| | 38% | 47% |
| Histrionic | |||||||||||||||| | 62% | 43% |
| Narcissistic | |||||||||||||| | 58% | 41% |
| Avoidant | |||||||||||||||| | 66% | 39% |
| Dependent | |||| | 18% | 37% |
| Obsessive-Compulsive | |||||||||||||||| | 70% | 40% |
| *scores in gray are the average web score |
| Test Note: Read the descriptions below to avoid misinterpreting test results (for example, the Antisocial classification does not mean you are a loner, it means you tend to be insensitive towards others). General Note: the validity and reliability of DSM personality disorders are still lacking in strong statistical evidence and clear agreement in the scientific and medical community. They are determined by the American Psychiatric Association and will likely be revised in the future. Author Note:I don't think Schizoid personality is a valid disorder (read), some of the smartest people in history were schizoid because they occupied a remote end of the intelligence bell curve. Schizotypal personality can encompass highly original thinkers as well as totally insane people so I think it's a flawed type. I think the remaining eight disorders are generally valid. Disorder Info Individuals with these disorders often appear odd or peculiar.
Paranoid Personality Disorder - individual generally tends to interpret the actions of others as threatening. Schizoid Personality Disorder - individual generally detached from social relationships, and shows a narrow range of emotional expression in various social settings. Schizotypal Personality Disorder - individual is uncomfortable in close relationships, has thought or perceptual distortions, and peculiarities of behavior.
Antisocial Personality Disorder - individual shows a pervasive disregard for, and violation of, the rights of others. Borderline Personality Disorder - individual shows a generalized pattern of instability in interpersonal relationships, self-image, and observable emotions, and significant impulsiveness. Histrionic Personality Disorder - individual often displays excessive emotionality and attention seeking in various contexts. They tend to overreact to other people, and are often perceived as shallow and self-centered. Narcissistic Personality Disorder - individual has a grandiose view of themselves, a need for admiration, and a lack of empathy that begins by early adulthood and is present in various situations. These individuals are very demanding in their relationships.
Individuals with these disorders often appear anxious or fearful. Avoidant Personality Disorder - individual is socially inhibited, feels inadequate, and is oversensitive to criticism Dependent Personality Disorder - individual shows an extreme need to be taken care of that leads to fears of separation, and passive and clinging behavior. Obsessive-Compulsive Personality Disorder - individual is preoccupied with orderliness, perfectionism, and control at the expense of flexibility, openness, and efficiency. |
| To place your results on your own site use the following code: |
Keep in mind, your results are dependent on the accurate truth of your responses. The more you take this test and get the same result, the more likely the results may be accurate. Finally, your scores, over the long term, will change as you do.
Eccentric Personality Disorders: Paranoid, Schizoid, Schizotypal
| Paranoid | |||||||||||||||||| | 74% | 49% |
| Schizoid | |||||||||||||||||||| | 82% | 53% |
| Schizotypal | |||||||||| | 38% | 53% |
| Antisocial | |||||||||||| | 50% | 47% |
| Borderline | |||||||||| | 38% | 47% |
| Histrionic | |||||||||||||||| | 62% | 43% |
| Narcissistic | |||||||||||||| | 58% | 41% |
| Avoidant | |||||||||||||||| | 66% | 39% |
| Dependent | |||| | 18% | 37% |
| Obsessive-Compulsive | |||||||||||||||| | 70% | 40% |
| *scores in gray are the average web score |
| Test Note: Read the descriptions below to avoid misinterpreting test results (for example, the Antisocial classification does not mean you are a loner, it means you tend to be insensitive towards others). General Note: the validity and reliability of DSM personality disorders are still lacking in strong statistical evidence and clear agreement in the scientific and medical community. They are determined by the American Psychiatric Association and will likely be revised in the future. Author Note:I don't think Schizoid personality is a valid disorder (read), some of the smartest people in history were schizoid because they occupied a remote end of the intelligence bell curve. Schizotypal personality can encompass highly original thinkers as well as totally insane people so I think it's a flawed type. I think the remaining eight disorders are generally valid. Disorder Info Individuals with these disorders often appear odd or peculiar.
Paranoid Personality Disorder - individual generally tends to interpret the actions of others as threatening. Schizoid Personality Disorder - individual generally detached from social relationships, and shows a narrow range of emotional expression in various social settings. Schizotypal Personality Disorder - individual is uncomfortable in close relationships, has thought or perceptual distortions, and peculiarities of behavior.
Antisocial Personality Disorder - individual shows a pervasive disregard for, and violation of, the rights of others. Borderline Personality Disorder - individual shows a generalized pattern of instability in interpersonal relationships, self-image, and observable emotions, and significant impulsiveness. Histrionic Personality Disorder - individual often displays excessive emotionality and attention seeking in various contexts. They tend to overreact to other people, and are often perceived as shallow and self-centered. Narcissistic Personality Disorder - individual has a grandiose view of themselves, a need for admiration, and a lack of empathy that begins by early adulthood and is present in various situations. These individuals are very demanding in their relationships.
Individuals with these disorders often appear anxious or fearful. Avoidant Personality Disorder - individual is socially inhibited, feels inadequate, and is oversensitive to criticism Dependent Personality Disorder - individual shows an extreme need to be taken care of that leads to fears of separation, and passive and clinging behavior. Obsessive-Compulsive Personality Disorder - individual is preoccupied with orderliness, perfectionism, and control at the expense of flexibility, openness, and efficiency. |
| To place your results on your own site use the following code: |
Keep in mind, your results are dependent on the accurate truth of your responses. The more you take this test and get the same result, the more likely the results may be accurate. Finally, your scores, over the long term, will change as you do.
Thursday, November 22, 2007
mohon maafkan mpus yang satu ini
Hari itu si ndut menemani saya yang sedang online seharian. Mungkin karena bosan, atau juga kelelahan setelah bermain petak umpet dengan mpus unyil tadi. Maka *mohon maafkan mpus yang satu ini* kali ini ia sedikit lupa diri untuk tidur siang dengan suksesnya….
Hahaha… dasar!!!!
Mid nov 07
hujan di omah sendok café
“Sudah lama sist?” tanya Kris. Ketika aku ada di pintu masuk. “oh..haiii Kriiis!” Udah lama nggak ketemu bro yang satu ini
Minggu malam itu. Berbekal peta, akhirnya aku datang juga. Sudah malam. Walau lampu redup nampak dari jalan itu. Tapi hingar bingar suara jelas terdengar begitu aku masuk kesana, menuju inner court café yang disulap menjadi ajang kegiatan "Kelana Nusantara 2007"
(Minggu 18 November 2007 jadi juga berfoto di depan foto
mpus unyil yang baik hati
Ketika mpus unyil datang dulu, saya sempat mengeluh :“Oh my god. Another cat?”
Dari dulu saya nggak pernah dengan sengaja datang ke petshop, me-rescue kucing yang saya temukan di jalan atau meminta anak kucing untuk saya pelihara. Nggak pernah.
Alasannya sederhana. Saya takut membuat komitmen.
Tapi salah saya juga sih. Setiap saya punya makanan lebih, pasti saya letakkan di piring plastik warna orange yang ada di carport depan. Kalau ada kucing yang pengen mampir, monggo silakan dicicipi 
Lama-lama, malah ada yang menurut jika saya panggil. Beberapa mendapat hak istimewa untuk sesekali masuk ke dalam rumah.
Dan kemudian *inilah yang saya takutkan terjadi* datanglah si little mpus mboy yang betah banget nongkrong di rumah.
Ia tidur di kursi kuning kesayangannya, menemani saya memasak di dapur, mengejar-ngejar sapu, memanjat pohon dan kemudian dinas menemani saya dan suami makan malam. Ah… Lucunya. Pertahanan saya mulai runtuh. Maka kami resmikan ia menjadi salah satu penghuni rumah ini.
Kemudian datang Mpus unyil. Dia adik tiri-nya mpus mboy. Awalnya saya nggak suka. Selalu saya anggap sebelah mata. Kurus dan sering batuk-batuk. Warna bulunya standar banget.
Tapi sama halnya seperti mpus mboy. Rupanya ia sudah bertekad bulat dan berkomitmen untuk menjadi penghuni tetap rumah ini.
Ah sudahlah. Saya tak kuasa menolak. Toh ia bisa jadi teman yang baik bagi mpus Mboy. Dia cukup tahu diri kalau sering dianggap nomor dua di rumah ini. *hiks! Saya minta maaf ya Nyil!*
Dua minggu setelah itu, baru mpus ndut datang. My hubby sudah mewanti-wanti : “No more cats, honey” dan kalian tahu sendiri kisahnya. Saya jatuh cinta pada pandangan pertama
Maka bertambahlah penghuni rumah ini. Kini ada mpus unyil dan mpus ndut. Mereka sepantaran. Saya sih berharap, mereka bisa jadi teman baik. Rupanya harapan itu masih jauh. Perang antar gank-lah, tonjok-tonjokan-lah, kick boxing-lah. Ggrrrrrrr….!!!!!
Berbeda dari mpus ndut, mpus unyil nggak pernah anggap serius peperangan ini. Malah, saya pikir, saya sempat melihat cengiran isengnya ketika pergi dari
Empatinya juga luar biasa. Pernah suatu kali mpus mboy lagi nakal dan dihukum kurung di kamar mandi. Di tengah miau-miau mpus mboy yang pengen keluar. Saya lihat mpus unyil duduk di depan kamar mandi dan mengeong tanda solider.
Apalagi setelah dia punya dua keponakan yang manis itu. *Setelah mpus mboy melahirkan anak, saya buatkan satu kavling khusus di lemari bawah rak buku yang ada di kamar depan*. Dia sayang banget. Bantu mboy menjaga kucing mungil itu. Dan herannya, mpus mboy nggak pernah protes tuh.
Ah, saya terharu. Moral of the story kali ini, proses belajar itu bisa datang dari mana saja. Saya belajar banyak dari mpus Unyil. Sifat baik hatinya, ketulusannya, dan terutama sikap positive thinking-nya itu. Luv u mpus Unyil. Kamu baik banget deh!
Serpong, 22 nopember 2007 10:00 (pagi yang cerah, mpus ndut lagi bobo di kursi item, mpus uyil lagi keluar maen, mpus mboy lagi ngelonin anak-anaknya dooong)
Wednesday, November 21, 2007
24 wajah billy
| Rating: | ★★★★ |
| Category: | Books |
| Genre: | Other |
| Author: | Daniel Keyes |
Mungkin saya sendiri akan merasa takut luar biasa ketika setiap kali bangun tidur, saya tidak ingat apa yang telah saya lakukan dalam beberapa hari ini. Saya sudah memakai baju yang berbeda, saya ada di tempat yang sama sekali asing, atau ada di depan orang yang tidak saya kenal.
Betapa mengerikan!
Buku ini baru selesai saya baca tadi pagi. Sudah berhari-hari ini. On off saya baca. Sambil makan bubur ayam, sewaktu ngantri di bank, Di depan tv *pas lagi iklan*, ketika nungguin tukang sayur lewat depan rumah, ada di dalam tas sewaktu nonton pameran foto, saya buka waktu nungguin si mpus makan malam, sewaktu saya puppy di toilet 
Sebenarnya buku ini sudah saya beli maret tahun lalu. Tapi baru sempat saya baca sekarang. Saya lupa atas rekomendasi siapa. Mungkin dari salah seorang teman. Saya tertarik karena ini kisah nyata.
Saya juga tertarik karena ini mengenai multiple personality disorder. Orang dengan kepribadian majemuk. Setelah Sybill *yang ditulis Flora Rhieta Schreiber mengenai kisah nyata seorang gadis dengan 16 kepribadian* yang pernah saya baca tujuh tahun lalu, kisah Billy ini jauh lebih menyentuh hati dan jauh lebih rumit.
Billy memiliki 24 kepribadian. Diantaranya terdapat Arthur, 22 tahun, pria Inggris yang cerdas tapi tanpa emosi; Ragen Vadascovinich, 23 tahun, lelaki kasar berkebangsaan Yugoslavia; Danny, 14, anak yang selalu ketakutan; David, 8, bocah si penahan rasa sakit; Christene, 3, gadis cilik kesayangan Ragen atau Adalana, 19, seorang wanita lesbian yang pemalu, kesepian, dan introvert.
Ia tertangkap karena kasus perampokan dan pemerkosaan di kampus
Saya salut kepadanya. Saya bersimpati. Seorang Billy Milligan harus melewati masa kecilnya yang kelam. Dan ketika ia tak kuasa menanggung beban, membuatnya menjadi bagian-bagian pribadi lainnya yang dapat mewakilkan apa yang tidak dapat ia lakukan.
Saya ‘tak sabar’ membaca masa-masa selama bertahun-tahun ia di penjara. Selama ia keluar masuk rumah sakit. Terutama pergulatannya untuk ‘menyatukan’ keduapuluh empat kepribadiannya yang lain.
Ah, saya jadi penasaran, dan mulai mengamati orang-orang di sekitar saya. Mungkin banyak orang seperti ini. Atau jangan-jangan saya sendiri orangnya
Saturday, November 17, 2007
Ada mayat ‘micky mouse’ di ruang depan
Saya pun mengomel panjang pendek. Ini bukanlah kejadian rutin setiap pagi seperti yang saya harapkan tentunya.
Saya nggak berani memindahkan mayatnya dari TKP. Begitu juga my hubby. Halah! Rupanya ia juga geli dengan si mister micky ini.
Dan siapa lagi sang tertuduh kalau bukan kalian wahai para kucing penghuni tetap rumah ini. Mpus Mboy, Mpus Ndut atau Mpus Unyil.Demi mendengar suara saya yang melengking diatas tujuh oktaf, mereka bertiga berkumpul di pojokan. Ketakutan.
Sebenarnya hobi membawa souvenir ke rumah, sudah pernah dilakukan Mpus Mboy. Itu dulu. Tapi hanya di bolak-balik, dibuat pingsan dan ditinggalkan di halaman depan. *the rest of story tentu kalian sudah tau bukan? Saya sendiri yang harus menyingkirkan mayat makhluk tak berdaya itu*
Atau kali berikutnya persembahan seekor katak yang badannya gede dan berkulit kasar *yang saya yakin umurnya sudah 'beratus-ratus' tahun saking tua-nya
Dan tetap saja pada akhirnya kedua makhluk malang itu harus saya rescue dan saya bebaskan di halaman belakang.
dan setelah itu sudah pasti saya berikan omelan dan nasihat kepada kedua kucing ini untuk selalu menyayangi makhluk lainnya. Mpus unyil tampak serius menyimak. Tapi mpus Ndut malah membuang muka dan duduk menghadap tembok. Huh!
Dan kalian semua tahu apa yang terjadi setelah insiden micky mouse itu?
luv u all !!!
Saturday, November 03, 2007
dari tepi ranu kumbolo hingga atap sumbing yang redup
Date picture taken : 21/11/2005 17:33
“Semua sudah diterima dengan baik mbak. Saya tunggu di Omah Sendok ya, tks.” Jawab Sony.
Itu akhir percakapan saya dengannya kemarin sore. Kenapa bisa janjian di omah sendok ya? Hehehe.. …begini ceritanya.
Semua ini berawal dari acara "Kelana Nusantara 2007" yang diselenggarakan oleh milis Natrekk
Salah satu kegiatannya berupa pameran foto. Foto-foto yang mewakili kisah perjalanan para membernya. Dan kriterianya adalah pemilihan lokasi serta kemampuan foto tersebut untuk "mengajak" mengunjungi tempat tersebut.
Dari dua belas foto yang saya kirim bulan lalu, ada tiga frame yang terpilih. Seneng? Ya iyalaah… sudah pasti :D Walau sebenarnya saya ragu. Apa yang kayak gini sesuai dengan kriteria? Sumpah. Setengah mati saya bongkar dan pilih foto-foto lama. -favorit saya tentunya :D-
Pengen tahu foto mana -tiga dari duabelas ini- yang jadinya dipajang disana? Maka dari itu teman-teman, minggu depan tanggal 17-18 Nopember 2007, jangan lupa mampir ke Café Omah Sendok, Jl. Mpu Sendok 45 Kebayoran Baru,
Info detail silakan mampir :"Kelana Nusantara 2007"
mengenai natrekk silakan buka yang ini : www.nature-trekker-indonesia.com
Friday, November 02, 2007
Panggil aku mpus endut saja
Dua minggu lalu, ada kucing mungil yang miau-miau di halaman depan. Sepertinya ada yang ninggalin dia disini deh :( Saya nggak pernah lihat dia sebelumnya. Seingat saya, in our neighborhood nggak ada anak kucing yang badannya gendut dan mukanya gepeng kayak ditabrak truk seperti ini. :DKami saling bertatapan. Saya dengan pandangan yang menyiratkan kata: “Gendut!” dan dia dengan pandangan puss on the boots-nya berucap “Please..please..please… adopt me!” arrrgh……mana tahaaaan….!
Ternyata doa saya terkabul minggu lalu. Sekarang isi rumah sudah aman dan tentram. Namanya juga baru kenalan. Itu dulu, hari ini si ndut dan unyil malah maen bareng. Dan si ndut terlihat agak segan dengan mpoknya si mpus mboy. Walau kadang-kadang, cakar miaunya yang segede tampah itu sering mampir di kaki.
Tapi semua sayang padamu mpus nduuuuut !
Serpong 2 nov 07 –ketika beras 10kg sebulan tidaklah cukup bagi kami semua hiks!-
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